Work Ruins Relationship

There is a saying the most happiest moment was the school time. It’s because people can stay with their dear friends all the time. However, we can’t keep that relationship after we found our own jobs. Our lives were filled by emails, tasks and deadlines. We work. We work longer. Perhaps we can still keep gathering with some true friends but work has already ruined the relationship.

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4 responses to “Work Ruins Relationship”

  1. Alfred Avatar
    Alfred

    totally agree with you…that’s why I seek for a way out for freedom…creating a biz is to help me achieve this goal…creating a biz is to help those people (who are helping our biz) to achieve this goal as well …. creating a biz is to help ppl who are in need such as elder & those ppl in poor countries like China, Africa & Ethiopia.

    I am not really like $ but I need $ to exchange something (such as charity, freedom & life, ) I want…

  2. bergkampho Avatar
    bergkampho

    i agree that money can help lots of ppl so we should emphasis on the love rather than the biz.

  3. Alfred Avatar
    Alfred

    Um…actually…it’s quite frustrating when chatting with you sometimes as you always can’t fully understand/get what actually is in my mind…just like last night, you could’t understand the wonderful idea (3-wins situation) I told you in the beginning…But pls bear in mind that I will not hate/unfriend you even you can’t understand me well as I treasure our friendship!

    Anyway, pls read the following for replying your above msg

    First way to show our love: wanna you understand that donating $ to those ppl who are in need is one of the ways to show our caring/love towards this kind of ppl….this seems that it is the most possible way for us to show our caring/love toward this kind of ppl, right? I don’t think we can spend our time to go to Africa to meet up some needed ppl there for showing our love, right? To conclude that biz is to generate $ which is then used to show our love to this kind of ppl….Thus, the “base” is love but not biz…in other words, biz is just a tool to show our love…Siu Fung, can you understand this philosophy more now?

    Second way to show our love: Another way to show our love is to spend our time with some ppl who are very close to us, such as family members, friends & gf/bf etc…For showing our love towards those kind of ppl, we better spend our time to show our love instead of $$…Can you see the difference between first way & second way??

    Finally, I am not going to force you to incorporate my love philosophy into your love philosophy (as I know you must think your one is better) but just wanna let you know & understand the point of view of my love philosophy

  4. bergkampho Avatar
    bergkampho

    wow, a long explanation about alfred’s love philosophy. of course i understand your point. anyway love bears all things. the greatest thing is love. keep going ahead to show your love towards others.

    p.s. it’s quite interesting to discuss things like that.

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